Grammatically Correct 2/5/08
A weekly grammar tip created by Academic Center Peer Writing Tutors.
University of Houston-Victoria
3007 N. Ben Wilson
Victoria, TX 77901

Compliment or Complement: Praise or Perfection?

The Author

Karalyn Jones
is pursuing a degree in education and has tutored since 2005. Karalyn is CRLA certified at the master level and is known in the Academic Center for the number of cups of coffee she can drink.  She also leads Make A Change, which is a movement to make changes in our daily lives that affect the world.
 
Definitions

Compliment (n):
1. an expression of praise, commendation, or admiration: A sincere compliment boosts one's morale.
(v) 1. to pay a compliment to.
2. to show kindness or regard for by a gift or other favor: He complimented us by giving a party in our honor.

Complement (n):
1. something that completes or makes perfect.
2. the quantity or amount that completes something.
3. either of two parts or things needed to complete the whole; counterpart.
(v): 1. to complete; form a complement to.
-from Dictionary.com
 

Compliment and complement can be rather tricky considering the only difference in their spelling is the second vowel. Once upon a time, they could be loosely substituted for each other. However, their more closely related definitions have become obsolete. Now, one letter makes a big difference in meaning.

Compliment deals with the giving of praise or the act of giving praise. It can be used as a verb (He complimented her) or a noun (He showered her with compliments). Its multiple definitions are due to the varying purposes of praise:

Ex. The governor gave his guests the compliment of a personal tour of the capitol building. 

Here compliment refers to showing honor.

Ex. Shane complimented the artist on the piece; it truly was the best work he’d seen.

Here complimented means giving praise and implies admiration.

Complement deals with the achievement or act of achieving completion or perfection. It can be used as a verb (Yin complements yang) or a noun (Flowers were the ideal complement to the centerpiece).  Complement’s definition varies depending on the field being discussed, but always refers to a part that allows a whole to be achieved.

Ex. Coffee is the perfect complement to any morning.

Ex. Their voices complement each other’s.

Ex. A 30° angle complements a 60° angle because it provides a sum of 90°.

Ex. A scarf would be the ideal complement to this outfit.

So if you want your work to be complete, perfect and warranting praise, be careful about that one letter.

References

"Complement." Dictionary.com. Retrieved June 7, 2007.

"Compliment." Dictionary.com. Retrieved June 7, 2007.

 


 

Test Your Knowledge

For each of the following sentences, choose the most appropriate word:

I never learned how to take compliments well. People generally don’t know how to give good (complements, compliments) either. They always comment on how the color of your shirt (complements, compliments) your eyes or how one piece of your attire complements another. Then there are (complementary, complimentary) breakfasts. When did giving someone bagels and bowls of cereal become equated to giving a (complement, compliment)? Now free breakfast is certainly a (complement, compliment) to my empty stomach in the morning. However, it doesn’t imply anything nice or pleasing about me.



Answers

I never learned how to take compliments well. People generally don’t know how to give good compliments either. They always comment on how the color of your shirt complements your eyes or how one piece of your attire complements another. Then there are complimentary breakfasts. When did giving someone bagels and bowls of cereal become equated to giving a compliment? Now free breakfast is certainly a complement to my empty stomach in the morning. However, it doesn’t imply anything nice or pleasing about me.

 

Suggested Resources

Related Academic Center Resources

Grammatically Correct is archived on the Academic Center's website, including all of our "when to use" grammar tips. To see how another writer handled these commonly confused words, see Complement versus Compliment, originally published on 3/15/05 and written by Candice Chovanec Melzow.

Recommended Grammar Website of the Week

Bad Language is the recommended site for this week. It contains tips, tools, public grammatical errors, blogs and various other categories maintained by Matthew Stibbe – a writer-in-chief and editor.

 

Grammatically Correct is a grammar tip of the week created by Academic Center Peer Writing Tutors at the University of Houston-Victoria in Victoria, Texas.

Comments about this newsletter should be directed to Summer Leibensperger, leibenspergers@uhv.edu.

Subscribe/Unsubscribe/View Archive